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I attend a lot of Board meetings (for profit & non-profit), start up strategy sessions, internal company meetings, etc. etc. I am constantly amazed at how quickly many of these go off track. I find myself reminding everybody about the four key rules around making and implementing successful decisions. I know most of you know these by heart, but I often see them being ignored when passions run high. So here goes my reminder:
- Discuss--a full and fair discussion around an issue, strategy direction, organizational decision, or whatever is critical. But, please, stop repeating the same points if you or someone else has already made them. Leave that to the debate stage if you think people are not paying attention to your thoughts. Keep asking if all relevant thoughts are on the table, then move onto the next stage.
- Debate--Here's where you begin to look at the famous "three options" around a decision and debate each in turn. Why three? It's best to choose a set of options that represent the full spectrum around a decision--like, let's not do this, let's do it a little way, let's do it all the way. That way, you can get a broad reading of the willingness of the group to support a path forward.
- Decide--once you are all tired of debating an issue or direction, decide. Often, one person needs to put forward a cogent argument for one of the options and persuade others that this is the way to go. Variations on the option are discussed and compromises made, if necessary. Be sure to poll the room to make sure everyone is heard and that all relevant points are made. Then DECIDE on the path forward.
- Support--but you are not quite done. Even though some members of the group have participated fully in the decision, they may still have reservations about supporting it. Take a tally of all individuals and ask for their support, or recycle on the decision. Everyone might not be totally behind the decision but they sure better be willing to support it.
We had a rule in Accenture partner meetings that all had to support the decision, even though some might not of fully agreed with the decision. This was critical to making sure we could move ahead and implement the changes without second guessing later. We would look around the room and ask each person to speak up and offer support if we suspected a problem. But once we left that room, everyone stood behind it. Sometimes it was painful to agree, but that's what building a great company is all about. You are not always right or will get your way. That's fine.
I'm not saying you should go along with stupid group decisions, but that issue should have been vetted earlier in the process.